Sunday, December 30, 2007

It's Our Anniversary

Tuomo writes: It’s our fourth (?!) Canadian anniversary. On this day, four years ago on our trip to Vancouver – long before we even started the immigration process – we decided to get married. Straight people would’ve done it years earlier, but in the US, getting married wasn’t something that was even an option. Most importantly, tying the knot wouldn’t affect our lives in the United States one way or the other. Dave would still not be able to sponsor my Green Card, a privilege available to thousands of bi-national couples, some of which are shams and thus instances of abuse of immigration laws.

But thanks to Canada this right was made available and eventually helped us move to Canada as a couple… We’re still a little confused about the importance of this day: should we make a big deal of it – or an enormous one… :-)

At any rate, I’d like to share a song with you Vem tänder stjärnorna “Who Lights the Stars,” a song by Eva Dahlgren, who also happens to be lesbian. The lyrics in Swedish and her dark, husky voice make chills run down my spine, but it is the refrain in particular that crystallizes my feelings for Dave and how he is important in my life:


...men vem vänder vindarna
vem får mej att gå
dit jag aldrig gått
vem tänder stjärnorna
som bara jag ser i dina ögon
vem vänder vindarna
och för mej dit min tanke aldrig nått


And here’s a translation (with some poetic licenses):


But who changes the direction of the winds
Who makes me go
There where I’ve never gone before
Who lights the stars
That only I can see in your eyes
Who changes the direction of the winds
And gets me there where my thoughts have never reached


As an interesting footnote on teh YouTube page, someone had written in Norwegian that they had used this song at their wedding/commitment ceremony! This suggests how Eva Dahlgren, who sings only in Swedish, is not only very well-known but also well-loved beyond her home country.

Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Merry Christmas!!!

Tuomo writes: Merry Christmas to you all from Rhode Island!!!

Despite the fact that we're in the States for the holidays, here's a taste of Canada and Canadian humour in the form of my favourite holiday song: The 12 Days of Christmas interpreted by Bob and Doug MacKenzie (Rick Moranis and Dave Thomas) from SCTV, a Canadian comedy show from the 80s:



Cu-cu-cu-cu-cu-cu-cu-cu :-)

Monday, December 24, 2007

Joulurauhaa kaikille - Christmas Peace to All

Tuomo writes: Terveiset Rhode Islandista! Toivotamme blogin välityksellä suomalaisille ystävillemme rauhaisaa joulua.

There's this tradition in Finland that dates way back to the 14th century whereby at noon on the 24th Christmas peace is announced. The announcement is read from the City Council of Turku, and from then on until Twelfth Night any crime commited is concidered aggravated - I think it still is... More trivia: Christmas Peace was first broadcast over the radio for the first time in 1935 and on TV in 1983.
I wish I could have found a clip on this event to show how the announcement is still taken seriously by Finns...


In the context of modern society, noon on the 24th is concidered the latest that stores are open. After this, the whole country winds down and remains shut down (in more ways than one) until the eve of Boxing Day, or tapaninpäivä (St. Stephen's). And honestly, Finns are OK with this, though I wonder what really goes on in families these days with cell phones and Internet connections! As a teenager, I remember being bored beyond belief by the end of Christmas Day because there was nothing entertaining on TV; the only entertaining "must" event of Samu Sirkan joulutervehdys, or "Jimminy Cricket's Christmas Greeting" - a repeat year after year - had been broadcast on Christmas Eve... And there were to be no phone calls in or out until after Boxing Day.

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Naughty or Nice?

If you’ve been bad, you get a lump of coal for Christmas in North America; in Finland, you get twigs so that your parents can give you that long overdue spanking...

Any thoughts on what the guy in the next clip will be getting for Christmas? Oh and trust me – it really is PG16/K16 at best! ;-)



And what about you all? Have you been naughty or nice? What is Santa bringing you this year?

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Action Plan!

Tuomo writes: Today was the last time for the Career Choices and Life Satifaction (CCLS) class at Kwantlen University College. Lemme tell ya: if you are thinking about taking a course that helps you get your s#!t together, go for it. I am very satisfied with the way things worked out for me, and I'm sure that my classmates agree with me. In the picture to the left, you can see not only Joy, our fabulous intructor "remover of obstacles", but also the board on which we gathered all the areas that we had discussed in class one way or the other. They ranged from writing resumes and cover letters to assessments to doing crafts in class (trust me - that can be quite eye-opening!). My favourite was the guest speaker who gave a presentation on happenstance, or how any moment can turn into a networking opportunity either there-and-then or years later...

In my case, one of the three two-week active job search weeks lead to my current daytime job as an on-call auxiliary assistant at the Richmond Learning Centre!

As our last task we had to come up with an action plan for the future. Instead of creating a folder that I'd eventually put on a shelf and then forget all about it, I created an action plan diarama: I got a 3D frame from IKEA, and then went to town - Fabrice would be so proud of me! I'll post a picture of it soon (i.e. as soon as my cell phone came recharges...), but I'll share my mission and vision plans with you all:

Mission Plan: To share my knowledge and wisdom in the most contructive ways possible

Vision Plan:
  • Celebrate friendship
  • Celebrate learning
  • Celebrate myself
Motto: Quis caudam felis erigebit se non feles ipsa

In sum, I feel much better about myself and my future than I did just four months ago. If that's not worth CA$240 then what is?! :-)

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Snowflakes - Brought to You Courtesy of CityTV!

Tuomo writes: I've come to discover that the early morning show on CityTV with Simi and Dave (what a silver fox - though no competition to Anderson Cooper!) bickering about fun stuff is much more entertaining than the one on GlobalTV. While the traffic camera and graphics on GlobalTV always seem to be focusing on Fort Mann Bridge, CityTV covers a wide array of morning rush hour issues, including the fact that traffic can be gnarled up even in Langley!

This was was highlighted as one of Simi and Dave's fun segments on the show this morning: cutting snowflakes on line! In case we need yet another way to waste away our hours at the computer instead of doing what we were supposed to be doing. Like me right now: instead of getting off my ass and getting kitty litter for the kitty cats, here I am telling y'all about cutting snowflakes online... :-)

Baltimore in Finnish Media

Tuomo writes: Our friends in Maryland, and in particular those who live in Baltimore, will be delighted to know that 34th Street in Hampden was highlighted on Channel MTV3 news last week.:

Jouluvalot ihastuttavat ja vihastuttavat USA:ssa

Suomalaiset joulukadut hillittyine koristeineen ja parvekkeet ohuine valonaruineen kalpenevat yhdysvaltalaisten rinnalla. Lähes joka kadulla on omat koristeensa, ja mitä enemmän ne vilkkuvat, sen parempi.

Päivi Sinisalo kertoo raportissaan, että eräs Baltimoren kadunpätkistä on kuuluista jouluasustaan. Kaupunkilaisten mielikuvituksella ei näytä olevan rajaa: löytyy liikkuvia tonttuja, puhallettavia pukkeja sekä valoa jos jonkinlaista. Sähkölaskussa ei todellakaan säästellä.

Baltimoren asukkaat itse ovat haltioissaan, ja katua tullaan katsomaan kauempaakin. Maan jokavuotinen ilmiö on silti oikeusjutut, joissa riidellään siitä, mikä määrä kimallusta ja koristetta on liikaa.

And here's a translation:

Christmas Lights Raise Mixed Emotions in the United States

“Finnish Christmas streets with their understated decorations and balconies with thin light garlands are no match to the American taste. There are decorations on practically every street, and the more they blink, the better.

“In her report, Päivi Sinisalo tells us about a stretch of a street in Baltimore that is famous for its Yuletide decor. There appear to be no limits to the imagination of the Baltimoreans: motorized Santa’s Helpers, inflatable Santa Clauses, and lights of all kinds. This is clearly not the time of the year when people care for their electricity bills.

“The citizens of Baltimore themselves are delighted, and people come to have a look even from afar. However, this annual American phenomenon also brings about lawsuits in which the parties involved fight over how much glitter and baubles is too much.”

Our friends Eric and Alan would host a Christmas party the weekend after our Finnish Independence Day Reception, and part of the program involved walking over to the aforementioned street and be amazed by the display of Christmas lights people had put up. I remember the first time having been almost disgusted by such opulence bordering this side of bad taste, but then walking away with a sense of humour in the end. In fact, I looked forward to seeing the display on 34th Street! Ah to be in Baltimore...!

Too bad the report itself (and the video clip, which does not work any more due to Finnish copyright issues) serves the purpose of tsk-tsking at American excesses rather than showing a way of celebrating Christmas... :-(

We Have the Keys!!!



Tuomo writes: We finally have the keys to our beautiful Banbury. We met at 1, got the keys after a short wait and at 13:25 we walked in as the proud owners of our house. Unfortunately, the stove wasn't hooked up (though it was supposed to be) and there were a schmutz here and there (on walls that are to be painted), but it is a beautiful house. Can't wait to move in for good...!

Later on we'll invite Angie and Tuukka, Joy, and Mika over for some champagne. Well Mika won't have any... :-)

I wonder what the cats are going to think of the move...

Friday, December 14, 2007

Iċ ēom Bēowulf!

Tuomo writes: We went to see Beowulf tonight. Visually speaking amazing, acoustically - deafening! Oh and for the record: Denmark is quite flat in terms of geography - unless somehow the fjords disappeared after the 8th century :-)

Considering how much I'm interested in Old English and the history of the English language, I'm embarrassed to admit that I had no idea of what to expect in terms of a plot. All I knew was that there was a monster called Grendel, and that the story takes place somewhere in present-day southern Sweden (e.g. Geataland = Götaland). Oh and that Grendel's mother was upset about her son's death. But then what? I had no idea of the rest of the plot... but I was never that much into literature to begin with...

I might have taken a more serious interest in Old English literature though had I been able to visualize Beowulf as one hot dude! Both Dave and I were thinking the same when Beowulf took off his armour and chainmail... Woof! Or as that might have been rendered in Old English: Hēo wæs mycel hēat! Wōf! :-) I may have to find my Teach Yourself Old English book and start developing other impure thoughts on Beowulf in the language of his times - and throw in a dative or two for good measure...! Hmmm, I'll just have to find out how to decline the noun phrase the hot man in all cases, singular and plural...

So it shouldn't surprise anyone that I was very pleased to hear some Old English (e.g. lufiende min "my love"). I just couldn't resist declining nouns like cyning "king": cyning, cyning, cyninge, cyninges... I probably got it wrong, but it got me at least temporarily distracted from Beowulf's impeccable pecs :-)

And one more thing for the record: even as a gay man, I couldn't help noticing that Grendel's mother was quite bodacious too :-)

Thursday, December 13, 2007

It's Flaming Wreath Head Girl Day!

Tuomo writes: December 13th is Luciadagen, or St. Lucia Day. For most Finns (including me), it’s just another day in December, but for the Finnish Swedes, a minority that forms approximately 6% of all Finns, it’s a big thing, possibly their biggest cultural event of the year. Needless to say, this day is a big event in Sweden too, and as I came to learn earlier this week at the Scandinavian Centre, in Denmark too.

As someone whose mother tongue is not Swedish, growing up I never registered Luciadagen in any other way than finding an image of a blond girl wearing a wreath of lit candles on her head in my Christmas calendars. In the Finnish Swedish community on the other hand, depending on the family, one of the girls in the family would be St. Lucia, and she would wear a white robe and have a wreath with lit candles on her head. Then everybody would sing Sankta Lucia, either in Swedish or Italian, which all about asking St. Lucia to bring light into the darkest time of the year in Scandinavia. Ask Monica (or even Kai) for more sordid details :-)


Come to think of it... I've never had any fantasies about being a Lucia Maid, but I wonder what Dave would think about me bringing him breakfast to bed (a twist to the tradition!) wearing a white robe and a wreath of candles on my head... He'd probably yell me for getting candle wax on the carpet and trying to burn down the house :-)

Here are two not-so-well made clips of the Lucia Maid procession in Helsinki:

Clip 1

Clip 2

For those of you who care, the language you actually hear in these clips is not Finnish but (Finnish) Swedish!

And here’s a clip so that you can get a better idea of the song as well as see a genuine Flaming Wreath Head Girl:



And just in case you hadn’t figured it out, it’s Dave, who’s 25% finlandsvenska, who refers to St. Lucia Day as Flaming Wreath Head Girl Day. Technically speaking, it's more his heritage than mine! :-)

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

A New Craft for Me!

Tuomo writes: Last night, i.e. Tuesday night, was again Finnish kids' night at the Scandinavian Centre. These are kids between the ages of three and seven (pre-K to Grade 1), and their parents are both Finnish, so instead of teaching Finnish just as a language, our goal is to teach them academic skills in a Finnish-speaking environment: crafts, singing, playing, and language arts tasks, etc in Finnish as it would take place in Finland. It's amazing to observe how these kids are starting to "lose" certain skills in Finnish or their linguistic skills in Finnish are not developing at the same rate as in English.

In other words, the kids are seemingly fluent in Finnish when interacting with themon an everyday basis. Linguistic gaps don't appear until they are asked to discuss topics that relate to their school life or culture; then they run out of words and resort to code switching, or "filling in the gaps" with items of the dominant language takes place. For instance, topics like their favourite toys or what happened at school can be surprisingly challenging. And these kids get to speak Finnish with both of their parents! One can only imagine the challenges of a kid who has only one parent who speaks Finnish...

A fascinating example of gaps and code-switching took place a couple of weeks ago. One of the boys was trying to explain why he thought the girl in the story we were reading was not having a pleasant dream (there was a picture of beautiful butterfly, and all the others thought that the girl was having a pleasant dream) :

"Se on... blood-sucking... perhonen!"
It's a [blood-sucking] butterfly!"

In my opinion, this suggests that the boy had developed a concept, i.e. talking about scary things that boys of his age are fascinated by. It is highly likely that this had occured independently of the mother-father home environment and with a lot of support from the surrounding English-speaking culture (cartoons, classmates, etc.). This is a quite common phonomenon among bilingual children, and unless some form of intervention such as bilingual education, language immersions, etc. is available, the home language (in this case Finnish) atrophies to a language that can only be used to cover a limited range of domestic issues.

Related to the episode of the blood sucking butterfly, I asked him:

"Kuinka sä tiedät että se perhonen imee verta?"
How can you tell that that butterfly sucks blood?

I was trying to see if by wording my question this way (rather than give him the participial phrase vertaimevä "blood-sucking") the boy would be able to create the missing participial phrase in Finnish. And lo and behold, a moment later he did - and all by himself!

So just beware, I have plenty of cute anecdotal stories to bore you with to support my point of view that even limited bilingual education is essential to raise fully functional bilingual kids.. :-)

Anywayyy, what I really wanted to gush about was how - thanks to teaching Finnish to kids - I have also discovered a new hobby: feltwork (Finnish: huovitus). The teacher Satu had brought coloured wool from which made these cute bright-red felt apples. I had never done this myself, so there I was with a bunch of pre-K and first grades making felt Christmas apples! We made red apples and a green leaf to be sewn onto the red apple, after which a string of golden floss was also sewn on so that the apple could be hung in a Christmas tree.

I'm so proud of my red felt apple; hopefully I'll be able to post a picture soon! And I'm so glad that I've discovered yet another craft to keep myself entertained - and people on their toes! Nobody can be sure any longer of what I will be making them for their birthdays, etc. :-)

Saturday, December 8, 2007

WWJCD?

Tuomo writes: WWJCD? No, I have gone evangelical... well not quite... I've become a huge fan of Justin and Colin, or more precisely Justin Ryan and Colin McAlister. This real life gay couple are the hosts of my favourite show on HGTV, The Home Heist. Because bad design, Canada, is a sin.

Originally from Scotland (I looove their thick and occiasionally unintelligible accent!), they are my gurus when it comes to decorating. On their show, they arrive at a home that is in dire need of some form of design resuscitation and then they perform their designing magic. Drama is inevitable, and witticisms fly something fierce. And the results are fabulous. And let's not forget Colin's (or is it Justin's) oversized yet fabulous boutonniers that just keep on getting bigger and bigger...


If only they could pay a quick visit to our new home and give their seal of approval to our sense of fabulousness :-) Or is it fabulousity?

Mukmuk?

Tuomo writes: A couple of entries ago I wrote about the official Vancouver Winter Olympics mascots, Quatchi, Miga, and Sumi. I also mentioned that there was a fourth one, which does not appear on the video clip. Therefore I thought it would be appropriate to introduce Mukmuk, my personal favourite because he deserves more exposure than he's currently getting in the media.

And what in heaven's name is Mukmuk, considering that the other mascots are these fantasy creatures that the locals claim do not represent Vancouver? Mukmuk is a Vancouver Island marmot, an endangered rodent.


The reason why they are endangered may well lie simply anough in Dave's acute observation: they're so cute you could eat one! Once again, I think Dave has a point :-)

How to Waste Time

Tuomo writes: Here's yet another cute webiste to help you while away the hours at the computer: instead of creating poetry only on your fridge door you can now do the same online! Enjoy!

To err is human; to purr - divine (On a tchotchke for cats in a petstore)

Friday, December 7, 2007

First Day as an Auxiliary Assistant

Tuomo writes: Yayy! I have a day job!!! OK so it's an on-call position but that's better than nothing...

The day started by getting to the office at 8:30, starting the computers, and going through the voice mail. Then I prepared all the colour-coded tutor schedules (surprisingly challenging) and completed the task of checking whether the URLs on our handouts to students were still active (surprisingly many weren't). Sent out a couple of faxes, responded to phone calls (and tried to sound like I was on top of things though I wasn't), and sent out an long over-due e-mail to friends (I guess I've got the grasp of how to look busy!)

Tonight I'm going to see Enchanted with Angie (Joy may be joining) because Dave's having fun with his coworkers. I've been wanting to see this ever since I saw the preview in the summer - and Dave's glad that he doesn't have to go see it :-)

I may have stuffed myself silly with sushi (courtesy of Tuukka and Joy), but there's always room for Sour Patch Kids...

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Après le cinéma: Regarding Enchanted... All I can say is that it was adorable; the Little Princess in me will be happy forever and ever!!! Perfect as a date movie but also fun as a self-parody. James Marsden was perfect as the charming but thick prince of fairy tales, while Patrick Dempsey (a growly oooh!) was just deliciously perfect in the role of the true prince in a shiny armour. Swoon :-)
(Marsden, left; Dempsey, right)

Thursday, December 6, 2007

Dad's Home!

Tuomo writes: I wasn't looking forward to calling my mom tonight and hearing more about what hadn't been done. As a result, I was quite surprised to hear dad's voice instead of mom's! He was released on Wednesday evening, right before the Independence Day, a big thing for my folks. The tests he'd been waiting for will be carried out next week, and there was no need for him to stay at the hospital any longer.

And not a moment too soon either! His hollering roommate had been replaced by another, this one even more raving mad. She refused to stay at the hospital, and even started to act violently towards the staff who tried to calm her down, get undressed and go back to bed. She said she'd call for the police, and the staff retaliated by calling in the guards. It wasn't until the 200 kilo guard showed up and gave her a menacing look that she calmed down. Even so, they tied her down, as a safety measure...

My dad's summary of the week-long ordeal: not a fun place...

She's Ninety - and still Going Strong!

Tuomo writes: Hyvää itsenäisyyspäivää!!!

After centuries of varying degrees of mental and physical abuse by her spouces until 1917 when she declared her independence, Finland has been able to blossom and to become a fabulous gal that she is today at the age of 90. Though this freedom was seriously threatened in the late 1930s and early 40s by her former spouse to the east, she remained headstrong and did not succumb to the agressions. When asked for the secret for her success, she coyly responded, "Sisu, Sibelius, sauna, and rye bread. Oh and Nokia phones!"

Here's the Finnish national anthem (with an English translation for the Finnish Language Challenged):


Unlike the past few years, Dave and I won't be hosting an Independence Day reception this year. Under normal circumstances, that would have been held last Saturday. For one, we don't have the kitchen for it. Then there's the issue of limited space to entertain such a crowd of people... Oh well, maybe next year... Not that there are any other fabulous holiday parties lined up anyway...

On a more somber note, here are some Wikipedia links to other world events that have their anniversaries on this very same day:
Halifax Eplosion (Halifax, NS 1917)
Ecole Polytechnique Massacre (Montreal, QC 1989

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Who's Hot

Tuomo writes: On a much lighter note...
When we lived in Maryland, we'd watch Channel 8 in the mornings for news, traffic, and weather reports. Our mornings would be so much brighter when Adam Caskey would be there with his weather forecast, especially after he trimmed his jew-fro to his current short haircut. We'd try to see if he wore a wedding band, ergo if he might be"one of us"...

Now that we live in Langley, we no longer have this morning luxury... Nowadays we watch Channel 11, or GlobalBC. Their weather forecaster is Mark Madryga, nowhere as dorky-dreamy as Adam but still IMHO belongs to the category of hot. Dave disagrees vehemently: nobody can be as hot as Adam Caskey.
Here the two are, for your viewing pleasure ; you decide - but don't forget to share your opinion!

Adam Caskey (left), Mark Madryga (right)

Tuesday, December 4, 2007

Dad's in the Hospital:-(

Tuomo writes: Tuukka calls me Saturday morning at 9AM to come over: mom had called and told him that dad has been in the hospital since Tuesday! He had met with his physician about his sciatica, but the physician noticed some arrhytmia and wanted my dad to go immediately to the hospital. Since he was out on his car, he got the permission to take his car back home before going to Mariansairaala ("Maria Hospital"). Before leaving for the hospital he went to the bathroom and noticed some blood in his stool. Whoo boy...

I can't recall all the details anymore, but dad had been on this (Danish) painkiller Voltaren retard due to his sciatica. I decided to google it there and then and see what kind of information I could find out on its possible side effects. Turns out that gastrointernal bleeding is a common side effect for this drug, and in the case of older people "can be serious." Ack! Fortunately, by conveying this information (with the specification on older people conveniently omited) I guess I was able to calm my mom down a bit. Not that I'm a physician let alone a phrmacologist (albeit a blond one), I'm sure that relaying the information that the bleeding was probably due to the drug rather than some other cause was good news. In fact, at the hospital they had taken my dad off Voltaren, and consequently he had started to feel better.

I talked to my mom again tonight. On Sunday when we had last talked, my dad was supposed to go through some diagnostics and stuff, but as of Tuesday night Finnish time, none have been carried out. The doctor has been around only once, and nobody knows when my dad's going to be tested. The (Estonian) staff, while adequately friendly, tells my dad one thing ("I'll take your temperature") - and then act upon it like an hour later! I guess if things were worse, my dad would be taken better care of, and he would've been transferred to a better hospital...

Oh and nobody is around on weekends, so this week, with the Independence Day falling on a Thursday, is going to be the week from hell... no physicians, no doctors, no diagnostics until...?! Perkele...!

To make things worse for my poor dad, his "roommate" is this demented lady who's yelling things like. "What are these Commies doing here?" or "Kill the bleep-in' Russians!" Apparently she's been given the green light to transfer either home or to some other facility, but not only does the patient not want to move or go home but her next-of-kins do not want her home either. Considering how regimented my dad is (he has to listen to the news in peace and quite once an hour), having to deal with the misery of hospital food or poor service just pale in the light of having to deal with this additional misery.

Keep your fingers crossed; I'll keep you posted on how this procedes...

Friday, November 30, 2007

Relight My Fire... and Burn That Fat Goddamit :-)

Tuomo writes: Just got back from the gym - it was the third time this week. So what's so special about that, you might ask? Well, the last time was in... hmm... August, I believe, and my clothes are showing the signs of mysterious tightening around the waist... On a positive note, I didn't weigh more than 215lbs/98kgs, which is still about 5lbs more than when I arrived in Canada.

And that, my dear readers, makes me certifiably fah-eh-at, or so fat that it affects the pronunciation of a perfectly good monosyllabic word making it into a trisyllabic word. I practically jiggle when I breathe...

Ok enough with the wallowing in self-pity. As I mentioned, I've been three times to the gym this week, AND on top of that, last night I even went to a Step class with Angie at the community centre. I haven't been going for the past three months or so due to my schedule. Then there were some personality issues with an instructor who played the music so loud that you could barely hear her instrutions, and words like knee and vee would sound alike (quite important if you've ever been to a step class). Most of all, I didn't think her workout was very organized: not only did she not bother to repeat the instructions after the first set but she didn't seem to have much symmetry either. In one word, her choreography sucked.

Anyway, there's this other lady; she must be in her late 50s or so, and we refer to her affectionately as the Pretzel Lady. She's fun, her music is fun, and her workouts are fun, yet delightfully challenging. So last night, at one point the following song came up, another song I hadn't heard in a long time. Ah the memories...






It's Lulu, sweetie darling, Lulu! :-)

Anyway, I hope to hear expressions like V step, repeater, and straddle in the near future. And hopefully I'll be back to 200lbs by the holidays, i.e. starting weight, before we rejoin Weight Watchers...

Thursday, November 29, 2007

(Cute) Things That Dave Says

Tuomo writes: As Dave was getting ready to go to work (and I lay in bed because I don't have to be at Kwantlen until 2PM), a Kinder Egg commercial came on. Dave, in his ultimate sense of things to say exclaimed, "That's a fabulous idea to put two things together: chocolate and toys. That's worth a Nobel Prize!"

Kinder Eggs... Available all over the world - except in the US where children automatically choke on them :-)

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Wet Wednesday - and the Cute Mascots

Tuomo writes: It snowed on Monday, and man was the commute home a drag. It wasn't as if it was downright perilous to drive home, but there were stretches where there were no lights other than those of on-coming traffic. With my increasingly (?!) limited nightvision, I found this annoying to say the least...

It snowed some more in the Downtown Vancouver area whereas here in Langley it just rained, and it was otherwise just chilly and nasty. Tomorrow's not supposed to be that much better. Interestingly though, the forecast for tomorrow this morning promised sunshine, but as of a couple of hours ago, it'll be raining from now on till March (only kiddin'!)

Apart from the weather, people have been talking about the mascots for the Vancouver Winter 2010 Winter Olympics: Quatchi, Miga, Sumi, and the fourth, honourary member Mukmuk. I personally find the anime-inspired characters adorable. But that's just li'l ole me who loves anime and other cute cartoon-y creatures (as Dave can attest!)... What about you? Have a look at the following clip and discuss :-)






http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lnSncdPP8VY

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

What's going on? (Part 2)

Tuomo writes: As I mentioned earlier, I've been taking this class at Kwantlen University College. By now we've reached the stage where we are ready to start working on how to write resumes and cover letters. We were asked to find a job announcement that we could see ourselves applying for; then the past two weeks we worked on creating fabulous resumes and even more fabulous cover letters. All of this culminated in a mock interview that was videotaped and stuff....

In my case, I happened to come across an announcement for an assistant opening at the international admissions office at Kwantlen. The best aspect of this was that the actual deadline for this opening would be at the end of the two week period, i.e. the day after the mock interview! My old, three-page resume was definitely in need of updating, and thanks to all the brainstorming and drafting we did in class, I now have a spiffy two-page kick-ass resume. Moreover, writing a cover letter was not that challenging either. However, all of this did take two weeks to develop and fine-tune, and last Thursday, after the mock interview (and having actually submitted the application!) I was quite exhausted. During that time, no time or energy for me to blog although I did have plenty of ideas to blog about...

Oh and the most interesting outcome from the whole process so far: one of the two interviewers at the interview actually works in international students' admissions!!! Whoohooo!!!!

Anyway, I called the Human Resources office this morning to check if they had received my application... and according to the person I talked to, it was still there. Meaning that it had made it beyond the first screening and that it hasn't been shredded yet... Keep your fingers crossed for me!!!

In the meantime, I've been volunteering in ESL and Linguistics at the Learning Centre on Richmond campus where I've been taking the Career Choices and Life Success class. I'm hopeful that this experience will also lead to an interview and subsequently a job... This one would be a parttime/on-call position though, but that's still a bazillion times better than what I'm doing now... You gotta start somewhere... At the same time, the admissions office position is a fulltime position though only for a limited time.

Decisions, decisions...!

Bawling My Eyes out on the Highway

Tuomo writes: Sorry for the break; I'll get to it momentarily. But first this...

So I'm driving on the highway, listening to a CD I had bought at the Finnish Craft Fair. The counter for Finn Fun, the program through which I teach Finnish to adults, had a set of CDs of children's music for sale, five bucks each. As a teacher constantly on the prowl for fun stuff to use in class - and as an uncle to Mika - I had to get all of them, so I became $40 poorer :-)

The particular CD I was listening to had the theme of birds. For all kinds of reasons, Finns are fond of birds and their well-being. In fact, one of the most important things we do is make sure that birds have food to eat at Christmas (unfortunately we don't always carry over beyond the holidays...). At any rate I was listening to these songs about birds, mother birds taking care of their chicks, birds being hungry, birds being threatened by predators, etc. With the music set in the minor scale, it was quite up-lifting to listen to... NOT!

Then this song about a finch came along (Koivun oksan korkealle teki peippo pesän, tiri-tiri-teijaa... "On the highest branch of a birch the finch built her nest, tweedle-tweedle-tee..."). My readers have to understand that, when I was five, this song was my favorite one, and I would ask my parents to play it on the record player over and over again. Then when I started going to the English School and when we were asked to request for our favorite songs, I would of course request for this one. Unfortunately, the teachers had to specify that the song had to be in English; my poor five-year-old mind could not wrap itself around the fact why my favorite song couldn't be requested for while every body else's requests were met. Disappointed I lost interest in that song, and I guess that as a move to fit in, I didn't want to hear this song again.

Until today...

So there I was, driving 60 km/h during the rsuh hour trying to sing along for the first time in like 35 years. It didn't work out - the bittersweet memories made me burst out in tears.

How butch is that...

Thursday, November 8, 2007

Bagels for Stereotypes

It's been a rough 24 hours. I know it sounds selfish, but due to the sad news from Finland, I've experienced some problems focusing on every-day things. Like yesterday, I was supposed to prepare my Finnish class in the morning; I was all excited because I'd be introducing my three gentlemen to the joys of the partitive: I love the the partitive case, and I just love loving the partitive :-) However, I so saddened that rather than work on the material, handouts, and lesson plan, I went on surfing and surfing for more news knowing damn well that I wouldn't find anything that would reverse and remove the events. So I kept procrastinating and procrastinating until it was time to go - with no activities planned or material chosen. Indeed, I'm surprised how well last night went in the end.

Today, I'm starting to feel much better - except having read a moment ago on how The Times of UK had reported on the massacre just made me upset again. In true British fashion, the journalist claims that the tragedy was to be expected in a sparsely-populated country where it's dark all the time and where the Internet is thus the Finns's best friend. Consequently, since Finns have very few friends - making the Internet useless - suicides are common in Finland. Oh how I wish I had been there to inform the writer on the importance of pinecones on the Finnish psyche...

Well, I guess this line of thinking might then help provide a scientific explanation to British football hooliganism: it rains too much, and they boil their beef. How's that for a stereotype?! :-)

Wednesday, November 7, 2007

This Simply Can't Have Happened in Finland :-(

In the context of my entry the other day on the 18th homicide of the year in Vancouver (it's up to 19 now), I feel extremely saddened by the news from back home in Finland: 8 dead in a school shooting in Jokela (35km/25mi) north of Helsinki.

From the Washington Post:

TUUSULA, Finland -- An 18-year-old gunman killed eight people at a high
school in southern Finland on Wednesday, then shot himself but survived, police
said.

They said the high school's principal was among the dead.

Police said the gunman, who used a .22-caliber pistol, was taken to
hospital with serious wounds and the situation was "under control" after
officers surrounded Jokela High School in Tuusula, some 30 miles north of the
capital, Helsinki.

It was the first known school shooting in Finland, where gun ownership is fairly common by European standards, but shootings are rare.

Our thoughts and prayers go to the victims' families and friends...

Can a Bagel Be a... Bridge?!

Tuomo writes: Here's a song that has been playing in my head for a couple of weeks now: Ein Lied Kann ein Brücke Sein "A Song Can Be a Bridge" by Joy Fleming. This song was the German entry to the 1975 Eurovision Song Competition held that year in Stockholm, Sweden. This is the context where ABBA made their big breakthrough with Waterloo (the winning country hosts the competition the following year), and as they say the rest is history...

Anyway, Ein Lied didn't place higher than third from the end, and as such was lost to me - until our most recent visit to Helsinki in May. We had arrived early on a Sunday morning, and consequently totally jet-lagged. However that didn't deter us from from going on a pub crawl. What was supposed to be the last stop on the tour was probably the most depressing Irish pub EVER, so we were really tempted to live it up a bit by having "just one more, the tiniest of drinks" at Hercules, or better known as Herkku ("Deli"). Eurovision mania was running high in town, Helsinki being the host this year - finally after 41 years of ups and down (mostly miserable downs); as a result, the club was playing classics from years and the dance floor was PACKED! We got on the floor and didn't get off until like 2AM. After a sequence of Turkish entries and having probably embarrassed myself at attempting to belly dance (but who cares, I was just visiting) came Ein Lied, and our friend Pekka went hysterical. Pekka ("Honestly..."), my other source of life wisdom - as in WWPS, or What Would Pekka Say - has been a role model to me in many ways, Eurovision trivia being one of the areas that I admire him in. He rattled off the year and other vital stats and then went on dancing his butt off...

In sum as this song has been playing in my head for the past couple of days, I haven't been able not to think about him and his partner Timo, who we both miss very much. We go back like to the academic sand box, i.e. our freshman year in college. Sigh... Anyway here's the YouTube clip; be sure to pay attention to Joy Fleming's funky moss green (velour?) outfit and her hairdo, then the must have style :-) But most importantly, enjoy the song! Pekka, tää on sulle!




Tuesday, November 6, 2007

Eighteen 27

Tuomo writes: my entries are not in chronological order, so sue me! :-)

On Friday night, we were in the mood for some booze and entertainment. We were heading up to Fort Langley where Dave had his 7PM haircut appointment, so we decided to dress up a bit, which for me meant putting on my gray peacoat instead of the usual leather bomber jacket, and go to Eighteen 27, the piano and martini bistro across the street from the hair salon.

We were greeted by a nice gentleman (owner/bouncer?) who, after a short wait, guided us over to the piano to enjoy some drinks and music until a table would come up. The first impression was that the bistro was hopping, the music was enjoyable and appropriate - no Miss American Pie sing-alongs going on! The crowd appeared local, casually dressed (making us feel a little over-dressed but what the hey!). The staff was young, well-dressed, and easy on the eyes.

The drinks menu consisted of an impressive array of martinis, all of which seemed juicy and delicious, just as we like 'em. I ordered a Crantini (gotta love these names, called blends in linguistics!): smooth and delicious, yet strong without giving you the sensation that the drink is scraping the brain cells off the lining of your skull, like so many martinis, prepared by bartenders who appear to think that more is more. In fact, had we been in Rehoboth Beach and in our favourite watering hole there, the Blue Moon, I would have downed five of them by the end of happy hour and been delightfully tipsy the rest of the evening. However, this was not the case, and I was also the designated driver du jour, so I had to drink responsibly, i.e. abstain from further sampling. Oh well... Angie ordered an 1827, a Chinese pear and lychee based martini: simply delicious with a capital LISH! I gotta have one of those the next time! Dave's Cosmo was just as consistently delicisious, giving us that we had arrived in the right place. Oh and most importantly, the drinks were also served appropriately filled in big glasses, an aspect we learned to pay attention to - the hard way - when a recently opened tapas restaurant in Baltimore failed to do so.

While I continued to nurse my Crantini, Dave and Angie went for a second round of drinks. I can't remember what Dave ordered, but Angie, who loves her Bellinis, got a Bellinitini (another blend there!): peach juice, champagne, and vodka (I believe). Lemme tell ya: that was just as delicious! Bartender, I'll have one these too... next time!

Right when we had placed our third round of orders, we got seated at the window. This time, something happened to our drinks. We suspect that Angie's choice, an Orangesicle, was missing Cointreau, the key element without which her drink tasted only like half-and-half with orange rind. This was remedied somewhat when our waiter brought her the orange liqeur though unfortunately the result of adding the Cointreau at this point gave her cocktail a visually unpleasant look. I had ordered a mocktini (yet another blend!) of pear juice and non-alcoholic champage; the drink, though served visually pleasingly in a fabulous tall glass, did not quite live up to the expectation. Although I could both see and feel the bubbles, the c... mocktail was not served chilled enough to get over the fact that I had ordered a non-alcoholic drink. Yummy and faboo looking, but not faboo on the palate.

As for the food, we ordered the Italian fondue, beef Wellington, and phyllo. The waiter pointed out that the dishes were sharesies for two, which we three (!) were OK with. The fondue was to die for as was the beef Wellington: excellent quantity/quality ratio. The phyllo was a bit of a disappointment being as pricey as the beef, yet the portion size and flavors did not quite justify it in our opinion. In addition, having been hungry when we walked in, once we had polished off our plates we were still hungry! With martinis at $7 a pop (the mocktinis were $4), our final tab ran underrstandably quite high (we paid the first three rounds separately).

In sum:
Service at the door: Welcoming and chummy; the doorman was attentive to us while we had to deal with the inconvenient but unavoidable wait.
Service at the piano: Very prompt, professional, and very friendly.
Service at the table: Professional and very friendly; could have been more prompt.
Drinks: With the exception of the Orangesicle and mocktinis, juicy, smooth, and delicious. Mm-mm-mmm!
Food: Appetizer-sized, delicious though possibly pricey at times .

So, on a scale of one to ten, we give Eighteen 27 a solid eight... plus. It was our mistake not to eat something before going there : it's a piano bar, for crying out loud :-) The next time we feel we want to indulge ourselves in something more classy without driving all the way to Vancouver, we'll definitely consider Eighteen 27. Definitely recommended; just don't arrive hungry :-)

Monday, November 5, 2007

Laughing Our Asses Off

Oh... My... God...

We're big fans of Family Guy. Sunday's episode, the 100th one, was the preceded by a "best of" compilation. The 45 first seconds of the following clip, part of last night's show, had us laughing our asses off for what seemed like hours. Angie could hardly breathe, and Dave and I both almost peed ourselves - it was so funny in an absurd way.



Or we just have a depraved sense of humour... A very depraved one indeed...

Bagels? What Bagels? :-)

So yesterday's and today's big local news item has been the 18th homicide of the year in Vancouver City.

The 18th. And it's like November...

Back in Maryland in Prince George's County, that figure was probably achieved way back by January 18th! And right next door in Washington DC a day or two before that...

The scary part though is that a lot of these homicides have been gang related; just a week or so ago six men - of whom two just happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time - were found killed execution style in an appartment. God bless their souls. Generally speaking though I have still felt so much safer in the Lower Mainland than I ever felt in good ole Hyattsville. Even with unhindered daily access to the comfort of delicious, plump, yummy bagels...

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Happy Halloween!

It's amazing how people in North America, including Canada, take halloween seriously - in a fun kinda way of course. I've been watching morning TV all morning for the sheer joy of what each TV station has thought of: newscasters and weather reporters all dressed up and made up. And let's not forget the cutest part of the whole holiday: the trick-or-treaters!

Unfortunately for us this Halloween is pretty much a non-entitity. I'll be working till 9PM, by the time which all the trick-or-treaters will have gone home. At least Dave will be over at Joy's so maybe he'll get see some goblins and ghosts... No parties either, making the news and photos from Ralph and Jim's annual and always fabulous Halloween party (the theme this year: Viva Las Vegas!) make us feel even more isolated. Oh BOO hoo hoo :-)

On a more positive note, since we're not expecting any trick-or-treaters at our appartment, we haven't bought any candy either. Usually by now half of it has been devoured any way, and considering how sparsely we tend to hand out the candy to the kids, we usually end up with a lot for ourselves. I'm sure the Tooth Fairy is letting out a long sigh of relief, as are the deities that control our waist lines... :-)

To put our readers in the mood I thought I'd share a music video that is right on the spot: though the song's good, the video was banned on BBC and MTV - and for a damn good reason too! Check it out (Robbie Williams: Rock DJ):



On a less grusome note, check this one out too; not only cute but talented, too:



Nevertheless, happy Halloween to everyone!!!

Sunday, October 28, 2007

Some of our favourite things :-)

To counterbalance some of our on-going whining here are some things that we do love and appreciate about Canada:

Dim sum (see previous posting)
Sushi (duh)
DeDutch

Just talked to our friends Steve and Dave in Bal'more and watched Halloween party pictures with them (i.e. pics from a party they had gone to). As a result we now have to comfort our souls by eating ourselves silly at DeDutch... Hark, was that a pannekoek I heard call my name? :-)

PS. In a serious of Didjaknow: Did you know the dude who gives Elmo his voice was born in Baltimore?

Saturday, October 27, 2007

Shop, Shop, Shop till You Drop

Tuomo writes: Had a fabulous day of fabulous light shopping. Once we got dressed, we picked Angie (Joy's cousin) up and drove over to Richmond for dim sum. For those of you out there who have not heard of dim sum, it's basically a Chinese style brunch where you order your food as you go from carts pushed around by the staff. Although Dave had insisted on going to Vancouver, where the dim sum restaurant reviewed in National Geographic was, I convinced that we should go to the one a class mate of mine had recommended. This one was supposed to have carts rather than the staff bringing the dishes to your table, an important aspect since neither one of us speaks Chinese and the staff quite often does not speak English. Finding the dim sum restaurant turned out to be more of a challenge than expected, but fortunately that particular area of Richmond literally teams with dim sum restaurants.

We decided to go for the one called Sun Sui Wah Seafood Restaurant. Despite no carts pushed by squat ladies with limited English skills (as in our favourite dim sum restaurant back on the east coast), placing our order was no problem. As the reader who knows us might have guessed, yes, we ended up ordering way too much food! However there were very little left-overs, none of which we had boxed though the staff asked us on many occasions. The food came to our table faster than we'd expected, it was delicious, and Angie, for whom this was the first time out in a dim sum restaurant, said she'd definitely go out for dim sum again. On our way out, the fish tanks caught our attention, and in true adult behaviour, we had to talk to the fish...

Then we made a stop at Aberdeen Mall, just around the corner from Sun Sui Wah. Angie wanted to go to this Japanese two-dollar store, i.e. a store where nothing cost more than two dollars. Whoo boy, was that ever a discovery; bless a find like her!! Let's put it this way, a certain friend of ours, whose alter ego goes by the name Gigi, would've had a field day! Not that Dave and I managed our shopping behaviour in any more controlled manner... I believe our bill ran surprisingly low $38 (considering the temptations...), and we both agreed we'd go back (lots of ideas for stocking stuffers!).

Then off to Granville Street for some leisurly window shopping and then to Chintz & Co. on Homer Street. A little too Christmas-y right now, but definitely a place to return to for some fabulous chotchkes! Mandatory coffee break at Starbucks, and then a walk around the block (we even discvered a store that sold stuff by Marimekko and Iittala!!!). Faboo!

Before going home, we tried some retail shopping, but unfortunately we ran into another Bagel Issue: Canadians do not value retail shopping on Saturdays after 6PM (they allegedly prefer to spend time together at their homes rather than shopping together... what a novel concept!). Therefore we hung around some time at Chapters and then decided to go for some Bellinis at Milestones, home of the best Bellinis around! In the end we had two each, with the second round spiked with some raspberry flavored vodka. Throw in some Thai chicken wings and artichoke dip, and we both stuffed (we had all been burping up dim sum flavors all day, so the appies just enough for dinner) and lit - whoohoo!

So we're now back home. I cross stitched for a while before working on the blog while Angie and Dave hit the couch to watch HGTV (surprise!), so now it's time for me to join them. I wonder if there's anything in the kitchen pantry as a late evening snack... Finn Crisps, or hapankorppuja anybody?!

Friday, October 26, 2007

Yo Canada!

Tuomo writes: Before anybody gets hurt, let us explain a couple of things. We moved to Langley almost four months ago (June 27 to be precise). With the exception of one instance, the red tape was easy and pleasant to deal with (Walrus Lady out there, you know who you are!). The mountains are spectacular; Mt. Baker across the border (80 km/50mi to the south east) is a sight to behold being more accustomed to flat landscapes. People at Starbucks are genuinely friendly, they almost systematically ask if we want room for milk, and the treats are to die for. Thanks to their oat fudge bars, unavailable in the States, our initial plan Canada = Health remains as elusive as on Day One. Hah!

Then there’s the whole gay couple thing. It’s been amazing to be able to be treated as a couple rather than either do the same thing twice or have to explain why the person you live with and whose name and number you’re submitting as the closest contact person happens to be of the same sex. Yet another reason to love Canada!

Unfortunately, then gradually the every-day reality began to kick in. Prices are higher than south of the border, made only even more so aggravating considering that the exchange rate, initially at par, is now in favor to the Loonie. The selection of stores and goods made us realize that we had moved to a foreign country. Perhaps the biggest shock has been that there are no Targets in Canada. For crying out loud, where’s one to buy fabulous, yet inexpensive stuff to make life fun?! Walmart is definitely not the answer! The local Bay, the closest equivalent to Macy’s in the States or Stockmann’s in Finland, does not quite cut it either. Extra sharp cheddar, bagels, Close-Up, Target, Borders Music, … the list of articles that are not available in Canada is considerable; recently our inability to locate canned yams at our local supermarket was also a cause for some commotion.

So despite these shortcomings, um… we mean slight differences, we do love Canada, our new home country, we do, though then there’s also the issue of weather… oh well you get the point!

Understandably the reader of our blog will by now have gotten the impression that we are two whiners, a statement which we are the first ones to agree with. However, we’d like to point out that the word bagel is also meant to refer to non-material things that we are currently missing, either together (Maryland) or individually (Rhode Island and Finland). We left a large amount of high-quality friends behind (a k a The Champagne Ladies), and to date we have not made any new ones other than our family members and colleagues and co-workers (not that we’ve made much of an effort to expand beyond them either). In other words, the word bagel also means things like friends and other valuable aspects of life.

Then there’s the aspect of growing older. This past week, I’ve been wasting away plenty of time on Wikipedia and YouTube, looking up info on my favorite pop stars of the 80s and 90s. It’s amazing how much info there is out there – and all that at the tip of your fingers. So when we’re wondering on the whereabouts of our bagels, we’ll also be reflecting on where the time has gone. Like I was 20 and a freshman at the University of Helsinki just a bat of an eye ago…! Auuugh!

On that note, I’d like to include a link to Dave’s and my favorite Finnish group of yesteryear, Ultra Bra and one of their songs Villiviini (“Wild Vine”); Dave loves this so much that he has even bothered to learn the lyrics and knows how to sing along in perfect Finnish! Enjoy!

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

What's going on? (Part 1)

Tuomo writes: Since this is a day off from school, I've been just hanging around. Mailed some thank you notes. Had lunch at Tim Hortons. Cross stitched for a while. Prepared my plan for Finnish class for tonight (numbers, times, phone numbers). Wasted a lot of time on Wikipedia and YouTube :-) I should probably work on my informational interviews, but I can finish those tonight when I come back from teaching; I'd rather indulge myself in the pleasures of blogging.

I kinda like my Wednesdays (mini-weekends) because that's a day off from my Monday-through-Friday routine at Kwantlen (Richmond Campus) where I'm attending the Career Choices and Life Satisfaction course. This started way back in September when Dave saw an ad in the local paper for a course for people considering career changes. The campus was also just around the corner, so rather than mindlessly surfing the Internet for open positions to which I'd never send my application, this seemed like a more structured approach to establishing myself in Canada. I talked to the coordinator of the program (a very nice lady), and although the program was geared towards women only (though the coordinator was trying to make it co-ed), I decided I was ready for this. Unfortunately the group didn't become co-ed and/or all the seats were taken, so I was referred to the coordinator of the same program in Richmond. Same interview again, and voila I was enrolled!

The syllabus consists of tests to discover our occasionally hidden interests and skills, getting to reflect on our goals and values, and - best of all - actively sought opportunities to explore careers (interviews, practicums, etc.). A two-week period of an opportunity to job shadow in the campus' Learning Center, where I've been tutoring in ESL since Monday (!), might be coming up, so keep your fingers crossed...

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Welcome - Tervetuloa - Bienvenue - Välkommen!

Tuomo writes: Maybe this time this will work out - a blog of my (or our) own where I can keep a on-line journal all about our new FABULOUS life in Langley, British Columbia. It's been almost four months since our move (more on that in a later blog perchance) and we're still adjusting.

A funny thing about living in Canada is that in essence it is very similar to living in the United States where we emigrated from (another topic to write more on in a later blog!). People speak English (with an accent though- or is it us, eh?), watch the same TV shows on the same TV channels, commute in their own cars, complain about conjested traffic, etc. Everythings seems more or less the same Except that some things are just plain different or just don't exist here. Like decent bagels (hence the name of our blog). Or Target. Close-Up. Extra-sharp cheddar. Fat-free ___.

Or could it be that we now live in a (gasp!) foreign country?! :-) A theme to be developed in blogs, weeks, months (years?) to come...